Is it time for in-home care?

A free family assessment for adults navigating care decisions  ·  livewellprivatecare.com

Go through each section and check anything that feels familiar. Don't overthink it — trust your instinct. At the end, count your checks to understand where things stand.
1
Safety concerns are emerging
Recent falls or near falls
Trouble getting in and out of bed or chairs
Leaving the stove or appliances on unattended
Getting lost or disoriented in familiar places
Difficulty with stairs or noticeably poor balance
1 in 4 adults over 65 falls each year — most at home, often when no one is there. Safety issues are the clearest signal that waiting could lead to a crisis.

2
Changes in memory or thinking
Forgetting medications or taking the wrong dosage
Repeating questions or stories within a short period
Confusion about time, dates, or familiar places
Difficulty following conversations
Noticeable increase in forgetfulness over time
Medication mismanagement is one of the leading causes of preventable hospital visits for older adults. Cognitive changes often start small but tend to progress, not stabilize.

3
Daily life is becoming more difficult
Struggling to cook or prepare regular meals
Wearing the same clothes repeatedly or difficulty dressing
Decline in hygiene or grooming
Unopened mail, missed bills, or missed appointments
House is noticeably less clean or organized
When daily routines start to break down, it's often a sign that independence is becoming harder to maintain without support.

4
Emotional and social changes
Increased anxiety, frustration, or irritability
Withdrawal from friends, family, or regular activities
Signs of loneliness or social isolation
Loss of interest in things they used to enjoy
Noticeable mood changes day to day
Social isolation has been linked to a higher risk of dementia, depression, and heart disease. Emotional health is just as important as physical safety.

5
The hidden factor: you
You feel overwhelmed or consistently stretched thin
You worry about them constantly, even when apart
You're juggling caregiving with work and your own family
You feel guilt, stress, or signs of burnout
You're losing time for your own well-being
Nearly 60% of caregivers report high stress levels. When you're stretched too thin, everyone feels it — including the person you're caring for.

6
You're still not sure what to do next
You've had conversations about care but no clear plan
You're reacting to situations instead of planning ahead
You're unsure what in-home care actually looks like
You've delayed making a decision because it feels overwhelming
You're here because something doesn't feel right
Uncertainty is often the first and most important signal. Most families don't act too early — they act too late.

Your score
0
Keep watchingCheck the boxes above as you go — your result will appear here.
0–5
You're likely in an early stage. Stay aware, start conversations, and revisit in a few months.
6–10
There are clear signs that support could help. This is the ideal time to explore options before something urgent forces a decision.
11–15
Your situation is moving into higher-risk territory. Getting support now can prevent avoidable stress, injury, or crisis.
16+
It's time to take action. Waiting longer increases the likelihood of a serious event — a fall, hospitalisation, or burnout.